~complexities of love~

some people would die just to be able to feel that certain euphoric feeling we call love
others would kill for the sake of that same abstract thing
one in which we are not even sure of its real existence
for all we know it might even be just a thought
a pure product of our wandering imagination
but yes fools as we are
we do certain things for love
things that are otherwise the proofs of us being humans
because
we cry we laugh we hide we flaunt we stay we go away
we lead we follow we save we throw away

we essentially FEEL

and yet others would give it all up
give up being human for the sake of safety
of surety
of security
but for me
its nothing but cowardice
a really lame reason not to live in our scary reality
a perfect way to escape to a fantasy world
where you could act all you want without people criticizing you for your actions

and I for one
don't anymore believe
in those crappy reasons most people give to justify their pitiful actions
like...

"its the most noble thing to do"
"i did it all for his/her sake"
"he/she is not the one for me"
"when you love someone you let him/her go"
"i gave my best but its just not enough"

and you know what irks me the most?
the statements/reasons that were probably made by HOPELESS romantics(meaning totally NO HOPE since they are the people who already gave up without even trying, those that drown themselves in depression without even assessing the real situation, those that make conclusions without even summarizing the facts)

"i love him/her but he/she doesn't know CAUSE I KEEP IT ALL TO MYSELF" (like hello?!? how would she/he know you love her if you just keep quiet and stare at her for an eternity)

"i THINK he/she loves somebody else so I guess I'll just keep quiet and love HIM/HER from afar" (you THINK..hmmmnn...from afar? now where have i heard that before? nwy my comment #1 goes for this as well)

"he/she is too good for me, I don't think its right that we are together" (nobody's perfect, if you reason like that for the rest of your life you would probably never find the RIGHT one for you)

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but i cannot blame them for thinking like that
who would want to risk themselves right?
its just that i think they are missing out on a lot of the good things in life
there is so much to discover
so much to give
so much to receive
so much to live for...
it would be such a waste if they would just give it all up
in order to preserve their well-maintained balance
their perfect worlds
their comfort zones
ther imaginary bubbles

i used to be like that
but not anymore
i learned...
and i just hope you would too...
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eh nakita ko nga pla ito sa net
fav song ko din ito tagal ko na nga ndi narinig ito eh
ang sad nga lang pro ok lng kc ang ganda naman ng melody at blending ng voices nila
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no me ames (j.lo and marc anthony)
"No Me Ames (With English Subti..." By Jennifer Lopez